The Complete Hen Party Checklist, Everything You Need for an Unforgettable Weekend

Whether you’re arranging a relaxed weekend away or a lively celebration, this checklist will help you stay organised and make sure the bride has a brilliant send-off.
1. Set Your Budget Early
Before booking anything, agree on a realistic budget with the group. This helps avoid awkward conversations later and makes it easier to choose activities everyone is happy with.
Remember to include:
- Accommodation
- Activities
- Food and drinks
- Decorations
- Transport
- Costumes or matching outfits
2. Choose Activities Everyone Will Enjoy
The best hen parties mix entertainment with time to relax.
Popular choices include:
- Buff Butler experiences
- Cocktail making classes
- Life drawing
- Dance classes
- Spa treatments
- Bottomless brunches
- Escape rooms
- Afternoon tea
At Butlers in the Buff, our professional buff butlers bring energy, games, drinks service and plenty of laughs, making them the perfect way to kick off your celebration.
3. Book Your Entertainment Early
The most popular weekends, especially between April and September, book up months in advance. If you’re planning a weekend in cities like London, Manchester, Liverpool or Brighton, secure your entertainment as soon as possible.
4. Plan the Weekend Schedule
Avoid trying to squeeze too much into one day.
A simple itinerary works best:
- Arrival and welcome drinks
- Afternoon activity
- Dinner
- Evening entertainment
- Night out or private party
Leaving some free time keeps the weekend relaxed.
5. Don’t Forget the Extras
Small details often make the biggest difference.
Ideas include:
- Personalised sashes
- Party bags
- Playlist for the weekend
- Disposable cameras
- Hen party games
- Decorations for the accommodation
6. Use a Trusted Planning Resource
If you’re still looking for inspiration, activity ideas or planning advice, it’s worth browsing resources dedicated to hen weekends. Our friends at The Hen Fairy regularly share guides covering destinations, party ideas and activity inspiration to help organise the perfect celebration.
Finish the Weekend with Butlers in the Buff
If you’re looking for an activity that’s fun, interactive and guaranteed to get everyone laughing, Butlers in the Buff has been entertaining hen parties across the UK for over 20 years.
Our experienced butlers don’t just serve drinks. They host games, keep the atmosphere lively and help create memorable moments from the moment they arrive.
Whether you’re celebrating at home, in a holiday cottage or a city apartment, we help make the bride’s weekend one to remember.
Ready to plan your hen party? Get in touch with Butlers in the Buff today and let us help make it unforgettable.





