14 Best Hen Party Games You Can Play with Your Butler in the Buff

8 May 2019

Some are old, some are new, some are borrowed, and some require a sexy butler who happens to be nude.

Hen party season is here again. Cue the matching “bride tribe” T-shirts, flower crowns, rose gold balloons and cheeky props galore. They’re all fabulous, but what will you actually do with the bride, her friends, her family and her Butler in the Buff?

Don’t worry, we’ve got your back. We don’t just provide charming, gorgeous naked butlers. We can also reveal the most entertaining hen party games to play with them!

Your butler can host every game on this list. He’ll explain the rules, keep score, top up the drinks and even join a team if the numbers are uneven.

Want games that work with or without a butler? Try our hen party games that always get the laughs.

Before you play

Timing: Most bookings last 2 hours, so pick a handful of favourites rather than all 14.
Group size: Plan on 1 butler for every 10–15 guests. Bigger groups may want two.
Keep it classy: Your butler is a host, not a stripper. Keep the games cheeky, never crude.
Drinks: Every drinking game here works just as well with soft drinks.
Age: Our butler parties are for guests aged 18 and over.

Icebreakers and quizzes

1. Guess the Guest

We love this one as a surprise introduction to your Butler in the Buff.

Blindfold the bride. Make sure she doesn’t know her mystery guest is about to walk through the door.
Line up the other guests, with your butler at the very end so she doesn’t suspect a thing.
She moves down the line, guessing who each person is just by touch.
Eventually she reaches her butler and gets a very pleasant surprise!

You’ll need: A blindfold (and, of course, a Butler in the Buff).

2. Who’s Most Likely

Because mob mentality is a clear pathway to friendship…

Get everyone to sit or stand in a circle.
Your butler kicks off with “Who is most likely to…” and a wacky ending, like “…leave with the best man”.
Everyone points straight away at the person they think fits best.
If you’re picked, take a sip and try not to take it personally. It’s all done in the heat of the moment!

3. Bride-Themed Pub Quiz

A chance to prove who really knows the bride best.

Write some personal questions about the bride and her future husband. Check every answer before the quiz.
Split the group into pairs or teams, depending on numbers.
Your butler plays quiz master and reads out the questions.
The team with the most correct answers wins!

Mr & Mrs twist: Put the bride on the spot instead. Get the groom to answer 15–20 questions in secret beforehand, then have the bride answer the same ones at the party. Your butler hands out a playful penalty for every wrong answer.

4. Cads about Matrimony

A wedding-themed twist on the infamous Cards Against Humanity.

Your butler splits the pack into dark and light cards, then deals them out.
Everyone tries to make the most brutal yet hilarious sentence. The funniest one wins.
You can buy Cads about Matrimony or download the template for free.

5. Naughty Pictionary

Get everyone’s creative juices flowing.

Before the party, write lots of cheeky words and phrases on slips of paper.
Split into teams and take turns drawing them for your team to guess.
Your butler explains the rules, keeps score and joins a team if the numbers are uneven.

You’ll need: Your list of cheeky phrases, large sheets of paper or a whiteboard, and some pens.

Drinking and table games

6. Where’s the Water?

Only play this one if you have a strong poker face…

Your butler lines up four shot glasses.
He fills three with water and one with any colourless spirit, then shuffles them. No peeking!
Someone takes a shot. Everyone else guesses, just from her face, whether it was water or alcohol.
Guess wrong and you take a sip. Easy!
For a cheeky twist, use your butler as a human shot glass and take the shot from his belly button.

7. Beer Pong, Gin Pong or Prosecco Pong

Beer pong is a game we all know and love, but beer itself can be a bit hit and miss. So why not play with something more sophisticated, like gin or prosecco?

The usual beer pong rules apply. Your butler referees (or plays ball boy, no pun intended) and splits you into two teams.
He sets out the cups in two pyramids at opposite ends of the table.
Take turns to sink a ping-pong ball in the other team’s cups while he keeps score and tops up the glasses.
The losing team finishes the leftover drinks, or takes a forfeit instead.

You’ll need: A glass or cup for each player, prosecco (or your drink of choice) and ping-pong balls. You can buy a Prosecco Pong set here.

8. Jenga with a Twist

For this one you’ll need a Jenga set, if you don’t already have one.

Write a truth, a dare or a funny forfeit on each block.
Some can involve your butler. Challenge him to a dance-off, for example.
Play Jenga as normal. Each time you pull out a block, answer the truth or take on the dare.
Your butler referees and encourages everyone to pick the daring option!

Get up and get moving

9. Twerk Pong

We’ve been playing this for some time and can’t believe it isn’t more popular…

Pick an opponent to take on your butler. Maybe let the bride have this one; it’s her night, after all.
They both strap a box to their waist and fill it with ping-pong balls.
Then twerk like there’s no tomorrow! The first to empty their box wins.
You can buy Twerk Pong here, and watch how it’s done.

10. Pop the Balloon

A fast, silly race that gets the whole room cheering.

Split the group into two teams.
One at a time, each guest pairs up with your butler to pop a balloon between them, with no hands allowed.
Back to back or side by side, the technique is up to you.
The team that pops the most balloons wins.

You’ll need: A balloon for every guest.

11. Dance Off

Get everyone moving with a high-energy dance-off.

Put on some of the bride’s favourite tunes.
Each guest takes a turn to show off her best moves.
Your butler judges and crowns the winner at the end. A prize for the best dancer is optional, but encouraged!

You’ll need: Something to play music on, and the bride’s favourite songs.

12. Wedding Dress Game

Who knows, the bride might prefer it to her actual wedding dress…

Split the group into two teams. The bride captains one and your butler captains the other.
Put five minutes on the clock.
Each team races to make a wedding dress out of toilet paper. The best-looking dress wins!

13. Pin the Junk on the Hunk

A cheeky spin on Pin the Tail on the Donkey. It’s best played with a butler who’s up for a laugh!

Your butler blindfolds each guest and spins her around.
She then tries to place her cheeky sticker as close as possible to the right spot on the hunk poster.
The closest one wins.

You’ll need: A ready-made game kit, which you can buy on Amazon.